I remember when decisions seemed easy- or were they ever easy?
As my daughter and son in law begin to make some serious decisions about their lives together- or apart- I think about my decision making process.
Never being comfortable with decisions- I often left before anything became complicated. I left decisions instead of making difficult choices- that would often be a better decision.
Why is this?
My Dad had the same job for many years.
My mother never worked outside the home.
I seem to change jobs and lifestyles like they are clothing.
Now my daughter seems to be taking after me. I don't really view that as a good thing.
How to help her not follow into my "things are better somewhere else" trap is difficult- at best!